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Perhaps you’re familiar with Tapas, the Spanish food comprised of a variety of little dishes, rather than a large main course. Over the four years after I turned 55, I gradually assembled a life of a variety of little dishes, rather than the big job and family life that had occupied all my time and attention for decades. This turned out to be terrific.
So I decided to write about how to assemble a rich and rewarding life after one’s Long Career – a Tapas Life. It’s of course not for everyone. Some will want to keep working until they can’t. Some will indeed happily (or unhappily) do nothing until they fade away. Some will take up a second Long Career or consuming hobby. Yet I’ve been finding that the Tapas Life appeals to a lot of folks (like our mutual friend Charlie Rothschild who assembled his own after we talked about it). It’s meaningful work to me to share what I’ve learned with others, for their potential benefit. So this work is part of my meaningful Tapa (along with Life Coaching, which I trained for at 59 and have been doing ever since; and my 6 years on the Board and Executive Committee of Beth Am; and the Williams Foundation which I currently serve). It’s meant to do some good, not as a money-maker.
I’ve blogged about aspects of the Tapas Life at www.TapasLife.com, in no particular order, done Powerpoint presentations for an array of groups, and am currently writing a how-to book. The book walks the reader step by step through how to assemble a Tapas Life of their own: put in some structure, do something you love, catch up, create a template for picking Tapas, add Tapas, social connection, use your business brain, give back, redesign relationship with spouse, do something meaningful, self-actualize.
As an example, my Family Tapa includes doing anything and everything I can for my immediate family and keeping in touch with other family members outside our home area; Work Tapas included part-time tech startup CEO for 6 years until last March (still on the Board), executive coaching (ongoing), a trial stint in solar energy, hedge fund Board member (ongoing); Meaningful Tapa is life coaching, Wms Foundation, my Tapas Life work, and 6 years of service to Beth Am; Friends Tapa includes social scheduling for myself and my wife; Artistic Tapa includes playing a couple hours of classical piano daily and studying music theory, and taking in all sorts of art stuff at Stanford and in the City; Exercise Tapa includes working out on the machines 2x/week, some golf, and riding my bike everywhere; Food Tapa includes cooking for my wife and myself and for dinners with family or friends; Wine Tapa includes provisioning and enjoying our wine cellar; Household Tapa is keeping the place in working order and tidy; Financial Tapa includes managing all planning, investing, budget, and tax matters for my wife and myself and her LLC; Travel Tapa has seen us all over the world, which I organize, sometimes my wife and myself, sometimes the whole family; and so on. Rich and rewarding! Not boring! ◉